Equality and the End of Marrying Up
By KATRIN BENNHOLD
NY Times, Published June 12, 2012
LONDON — When the daughter of a former flight attendant married the
future king of England last year, some starry-eyed monarchists cooed
over a 21st-century Cinderella.
But the royal wedding of Kate Middleton to Prince William was
exceptional in more than one way. The postwar phenomenon of “marrying
up” is becoming as archaic as the curtsy the Duchess of Cambridge is
still expected to do before her mother-in-law. These days, women tend to
marry men from the same socioeconomic class, recent statistics from the
Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development suggest. (Indeed,
a growing proportion is marrying down.)
Women were long inadvertent but key drivers of social mobility. Marrying
the boss was one way for the secretary to escape her social background
and lift her offspring into a higher stratum of income, networks and
cultural sophistication.
As women have overtaken men in education and are catching up with them
in the job market, the rise of what sociologists and economists call
assortative mating — people picking spouses with similar educational
achievements and incomes — has been pronounced.
Today, across the member countries of the O.E.C.D., 40 percent of
couples in which both partners work belong to the same or a neighboring
earnings bracket, compared with 33 percent two decades ago, a 2011
report by the agency shows. Nearly two-thirds of couples have the same
level of educational attainment (in 15 percent of the cases, the wife is
more educated than her husband).
Doctors used to marry nurses. Now doctors marry doctors.
So while husbands and wives have become more equal, inequality between
families appears to be on the rise. As Christine R. Schwartz, a
professor of sociology at the University of Wisconsin, puts it:
“Marriages are increasingly likely to consist of two high- or two
low-earning partners,” rather than of one of each.
Looking at data on married couples in the United States from 1967 to
2005, Dr. Schwartz found that increases in general earnings inequality
over that period would have been between 25 percent and 30 percent lower
in the absence of more assortative mating.
Potentially widening the gap between rich and poor families further is
the fact that women nearer the top of the income distribution have
increased their hours of paid work relatively more than women nearer the
bottom.
That’s explosive stuff, particularly at a time of recession and
austerity, when rising income inequality is in the spotlight anyway and
the temptation of populism fierce.
The trouble is that while marriage patterns are among the most powerful
drivers of social mobility, there is very little you can do about them.
Women now earn about 60 percent of all graduate degrees in rich
countries. Of course they are more likely to marry men of similar
educational background; they meet them at college.
“Relationships are not policy material,” said Willem Adema, a social
policy specialist at the O.E.C.D. “You have no real lever in this area.”
So does gender equality inevitably foster greater income inequality?
Not necessarily.
One nuance is that while assortative mating has raised inequality,
female labor market participation has actually lowered it, on average
outweighing the effect across the O.E.C.D. The widening gulf between
male earnings at the top and the bottom of the income distribution due
to falling work hours and fast technological change helps explain why
inequality on balance still grew.
Secondly, more gender equality creates greater economic resources not
just within families but also at the government level: More and more
educated women in work mean a more productive economy and greater tax
revenues, thus over time providing politicians with additional financial
muscle to give children of poorer families an extra boost.
The policy challenge then is to decide on the most effective way to level the playing field for the next generation.
In Britain,
where social mobility is lower and income differences are greater than
in most other European countries — and where a bout of youth rioting
last August added urgency to the issue — Prime Minister David Cameron
recently introduced a controversial pilot program of parenting classes.
In three areas of the country, parents of children under the age of 6
now get £100, or about $155, in vouchers they can redeem for training on
anything from “teething to tantrums,” and crucially, communicating with
their babies.
“It’s ludicrous that we should expect people to train for hours to drive
a car or use a computer, but when it comes to looking after a baby, we
tell people to just get on with it,” said Mr. Cameron, himself a father
of three. “I would have loved more guidance when my children were
babies.”
Critics say the proposal smacks of a nanny state wading too deeply into
family affairs. They question whether a wide cross section of parents is
ready to take up the classes (which so far have been associated with
court orders on parents of unruly children). To minimize stigmatization,
the vouchers are deliberately available at Boots, the ubiquitous
drugstore chain, among other places.
Mr. Adema of the O.E.C.D., who has studied work-life balance and child
poverty across Europe and beyond, says that promoting parenting
activities that contribute to child development like talking and reading
to toddlers might be a relatively low-cost way of helping to narrow the
cognitive gap between children of different backgrounds before they
start primary school.
But, he stressed, it is no substitute for widely available and
affordable child care. “This could be complementary to formal child
care,” he said. “It won’t do the trick on its own.”
It’s hard to sell Scandinavian-style preschools — available to all
children above the age of 1 and heavily subsidized — to cash-strapped
governments elsewhere in Europe. But it would almost certainly be a
lucrative long-term investment.
As Mr. Cameron said himself: “Parents are nation-builders.”
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